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BE GOOD TO YOURSELF

The phrase ‘Looking after No1’ conjures up thoughts of being selfish, however if you don’t you wont be in a fit state to look after anyone else.  Do you treat yourself with the respect tolerance and kindness that you would hope to offer others?  How you treat yourself ultimately determines the quality of your life.  If you want or need to be there for others you must first look to your own needs. 

Try this simple exercise, it will take you 10 mins.

 

What are the simple things in life that give you pleasure that you do not make any or enough time for?  List them now, some of mine are theatre, reading, time with friends, playing with my daughter without saying on autopilot ‘in a minute’ that inevitably stretches to 10, imagine how that must feel to a small child!  Take a long hard look at your list.  The absence of these things in your life is having an impact. 

 

Being good to yourself should be second nature, like, and as essential as breathing – give yourself the respect you deserve.  Even if you were only able to allocate 10 mins of time to a couple of items on your list today, you will discover it makes a big difference, you will notice how much you have missed them, it will be noticed by others too!  People around you will see you as being more relaxed, happier, you will notice you get more done because you will be more motivated and fulfilled.

 

That’s all from me, I have a little person who wants to play!

 

You deserve to be happy - Your life is important - Choose to feel great everyday - You can conquer limiting beliefs - You will become better everyday - You can easily conquer your fears - Be all that you want to be - Your future looks great - Your life is important - Who you are makes a difference - You will make the right choices - You deserve to be heard - Choose to feel great every day - You can grow your potential - Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts - You deserve to be happy - Your life is important - Choose to feel great everyday - You can conquer limiting beliefs - You will become better everyday - You can easily conquer your fears - Be all that you want to be - Your future looks great - Your life is important - Who you are makes a difference - You will make the right choices - You deserve to be heard - Choose to feel great every day - You can grow your potential - Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts - You deserve to be happy - Your life is important - Choose to feel great everyday - You can conquer limiting beliefs - You will become better everyday - You can easily conquer your fears - Be all that you want to be - Your future looks great - Your life is important - Who you are makes a difference - You will make the right choices - You deserve to be heard - Choose to feel great every day - You can grow your potential - Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts -